choose it with care and then forget about it

As the minutes ticked by, one of his sons grew impatient and started spreading peanut butter on Covey’s bald head. Covey stayed on the phone, so his son added a layer of jam and a piece of bread. Covey kept calm, which enabled him to continue conducting business while indulging his son. The lesson, Covey said, was Habit No. 4: “Think win-win.